Using our current technology, how close to us would an alien spacecraft have to be before it could detect Life on Earth?

During Earth’s night you can see the lights of major cities from the moon. So this would imply that further out from the moon one could detect light. Then there are the radio and television waves. They go out infinitely into space, but they become four times weaker every time the distance doubles. In any case, we pick up radio signals from Voyager I and II even though they have left the solar system, so I would suppose people could pick up our radio signals quite far away.