Grief isn’t about doing something for the person that died.
Grief is about a mixing of a feeling of loss and a realization of our own mortality.
The person that passed away may have been very integral to our lives, and now suddenly they are no longer there and, as you said, there is nothing you can do to bring them back so you can say some final, last words.
Grief has 5 different stages which you can read about all over the Internet. The websitehas this image to understand the process.
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